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Someone in Your Corner

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

Metal_whistle Ok, I admit it.  I am a health nut.  A real self-improvement junkie.  I have practiced yoga for years and years. I eat organic. Take great supplements. Meditate.  I am working on a degree to become a Naturopathic Doctor. And I hired a personal trainer to work out with for one hour each night. You read that right- five nights a week. I feel good.  I feel healthy.  I feel together.

My personal trainer is Angela Gallagher of Fit 4 Life.  She is quite a ball of unbridled energy, unconditional acceptance and enthusiastic motivation.  She pushes me to the limit and makes me feel happy about it. And I know that she is 100% commited to my successI like having someone in my corner.  Somehow I don’t feel so all alone as I strive to reach my goals for a better life.

Last night during my cardio workout, as my heart-rate monitor was beeping wildly, a lightbulb went off in my head! It dawned on me that hiring a personal coach to help you achieve your business, career, financial and relationship goals is alot like hiring a personal trainer.  The work that I do with people as a personal and executive coach is very similar to the work that my personal trainer does.  While Angie focuses only on the body, my work focuses on integrating all components of a person’s life to achieve on-going life success.  There is a reason that my clients call me "The Diva of Life Design".  Just like Angie in designing fitness programs, I do my job of helping people design their life success programs.  And, I do it very well.

So what about you?  Are you ready to dip your toe in the water of hiring your own personal coach to help you live your best life?  With just a little bit of thought and research, you can hire the right coach to meet your unique needs (one size does not fit all!).   

Stay tuned for future posts to find out how to locate the very best coach to guarantee your success.

For now, it’s back to the treadmill!

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Everyone Loves a Winner

Friday, October 19th, 2007

Wow- talk about a humbling experience.  My business, Rita Perea Consulting, has recently been Trophy nominated for two awards.  One is the "Best Kept Secret" award and the other is the "Community Champion" award.  Both are through the Greater Des Moines  Business Partnership. 

I could have my ego all wrapped up in this process.   My ego could easily be saying "You gotta win this or your name will be toast!  Second place is not an option!"  My strong competitive side could be unleashed in full force.  But where will that get me?  Probably only to the land of high blood pressure, which is not a good place to be.

Call it the school of hard knocks, but in my last Executive position I learned to identify when my ego was involved in a particular project or decision.  I learned to pay attention to the little (alright- huge) rush of adrenaline that would start at the tips of my toes and then shoot, like a mighty river, all the way to the top of my head.  I learned that I could get such a surge of that unstoppable, unbeatable, ego-leading-the-charge, incredible feeling, that I could (and please don’t fire me for saying this) be found  to make decisions that weren’t necessarily in everyone’s best interest.  I learned, the hard way, that when my ego is involved, my thinking might be clouded.  The book, A Course in Miracles, warns that our egos create an illusion and that we may not act for the "highest good of all" when our egos are engaged.  Isn’t that the truth?  I learned my lessons well.

But, I digress…

Back to the awards- My mission statement says it best: "Lead well. Live well. Do well."  One of the values that my business was founded on is "Philanthropy is just as important as Profitability".  For my business that means that I give back to the community a high percentage of my time, talents and profits.  While it would be awesome to be recognized this, whether I receive an award or not I will still continue to do what I do for the right reasons.  And, with my ego out of the way.

Photo: Flickr by Kershnerstudios

Tarnish on Your Personal Branding Silver

Friday, September 28th, 2007

Candlestick_2 Do you ever oversell a service or product? You know- promise more than can really be delivered.  Or promise it can be done or accomplished in an unrealistic time just to get the sale or client. Some people have a destructive habit of doing just that.

In our capitalistic society we see and hear it happening all of the time.  New.  Improved. Good for you.  Enriched.  You gotta have this to be cool.  Organic.  Green.  It can be delivered/ installed/ renovated by the end of next week.  I promise. Cross my heart and hope to die… Oh, but I forgot to tell you that my fingers are crossed too…. so what I just oversold and said doesn’t really count.

And what’s the harm?  Doesn’t everyone oversell?

From a personal branding perspective, overselling can be the nail in your coffin.  If you constantly oversell your goods, services, or yourself and make promises that you cannot deliver on, then you are creating a string of negative interactions that will eventually bite you.  People will hear, word of mouth, that you do not operate with integrity.  And who wants to hire a service professional, a contractor, a CPA, an attorney, a financial planner or have an employee on board who does not keep their word.  The answer is no one.

One of my executive consulting clients is in the middle of releasing her formerly trusted financial planner for overselling.  More accurately, he overstated (actually he lied) about the performance of investments, the cost of products that she purchased, and the cost of his services.  We all know what his motivation was for doing it.  He wanted to land a few big fish to showcase as he oversold to the next poor sucker he was prospecting.  The tough thing to understand about this situation, and others who oversell or overstate, is how they would think that it would not catch up with them? And, now in the wake of a complaint with the state insurance commissioner, how this financial planner thinks that his breech of trust and lack of integrity won’t tarnish the silver of his personal brand

The good news is that we can all learn from the mistakes of others. Before you promise anything to anyone, be sure that you can make it happen.  Most people would like to hear a really honest "I am sorry but I cannot guarantee that" instead of "Sure we can!" only to find out that surely they can’t. Being a coveted employee, member of an organization or a successful business person that others will make referrals to depends on your follow up, follow through, right action, right intention and integrity

Protect your personal brand and reputation at all costs.  It will pay huge dividends in a lot of ways. 

Photo on Flickr by Objects
 

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