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The Power of Personal Transformation

Thursday, March 13th, 2008
"When deeds and words are in accord, the whole world is transformed."
Chuang Chou, a.k.a. Chuang Tzu, Chuang Tse Chuang : Chinese philosopher, major thinker in Taoism Chuang Tzu (c.360 BC – c. 275 BC)
Leaving a positive impact in the world begins with personal transformation.  Right action, right speech, and right intention every minute of every day.  This is the modern-day "transparency" that the media touts.  Being who you say you are and doing what you say you will do- when "words and deeds are in accord".   
When we are out of integrity, our words and deeds don’t match.  We are incongruent.  And, on an energetic level, people can tell.  Have you ever met someone at a cocktail party and left with the feeling that something wasn’t just quite right?  I call it failing my "skin-crawl test".  These are people who we can sense have something to hide.  Their words and deeds don’t match up quite right.
But when you operate with transparency, with integrity, in alignment, people intuitively sense it.  They will want to be near you.  They will want to support you.  Doors will begin opening.  Personal transformation happens. And it feels incredible.
Make up your mind that just for today your words and deeds will be in accord and you will be in integrity.  Then do it again tomorrow.  And the next day, and the next day. 
What do you have to lose?  Nothing but bad karma.

Mindstorming for the Masters

Thursday, February 21st, 2008

Dirt_devil So, I am in Florida on a retreat this week. The sun is welcomingly warm. I am spending time looking at my own path to self-actualization, spiritual development and exploring my beliefs. As leaders I think it is important to identify our beliefs and how they impact our actions. Wow!  What a week it has been! 

Have you ever spent time getting the junk out of your closet?  That’s what this feels like…clearing out the junk that I have spent an entire lifetime accumulating between my ears. 

I am calling this process "Mindstorming".  It is a lot like "Brainstorming" in that I am listing the beliefs that I am becoming aware of.  It is also similar to "Mindmapping" because I am trying to trace how I came to believe what I believe.  Where did these beliefs come from?  How did I accumulate them?  Is one belief connected to another? 

The resulting process has been a Mindstorm- the junk in my closet has been all stirred up, just like a bunch of desert dirt devils, as I sift and sort my beliefs.  And, boy, is it  ever dusty in here!

Photo from Flickr

Will the Real YOU Please Stand Up?

Thursday, January 31st, 2008

In a previous post, I shared that January is "Reach Your Potential" month.  Well, how are we doing so far? 

Part of the challenge of reaching our fullest potential is to uncover who we really are- our authentic self– and then live that life.  I call all of that uncovering our "personal excavation work".  Just like using a great big backhoe in a rock quarry, we need to dig deep into our internal bedrock to discover who we are, what we believe and how to behave to create what we want.

Now, instead of a backhoe messing up your living room, you can use some other tools for your personal excavation work.  A tool that I love to use with my clients to help them  move closer to becoming their authentic selves is to have them tell "their story".

Telling "their story" can be done on paper or by talking it through.  The purpose is to identify their own pieces of the authenticity puzzle. Is there one major theme in their story?  What are the high points of their story?  What are the lessons to others from their story?  Is there a new part to the story that they want to add; to create?  Are their behaviors aligned with the story? 

After we do our personal excavation work, the task then becomes living in congruence, every minute of every day, with what we know to be true.  Living our authentic life- our real life.  Getting closer to that potential we are trying to reach.

It is oh, so juicy and satisfying!

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